Many people spend years chasing accomplishments, recognition, and praise to feel valuable. But true worth doesn’t come from achievements—it comes from God. John’s story is a powerful example: striving for approval never healed his heart, but surrendering to God did.
Key Insight
“All efforts that do not begin by clearing the way for change will result in change that only occurs on the surface.”
When we try to fix feelings of inadequacy through performance, we only create temporary solutions. The root issue—false beliefs about our identity—remains untouched. These lies often sound like:
“I’m only valuable if I succeed.”
“I have to earn love.”
But God’s truth says something radically different: You are loved and accepted because of who He is, not what you do.
Why Performance-Based Love Fails
Chasing approval through accomplishments can lead to exhaustion, anxiety, and even depression. It’s a cycle that never satisfies because it’s built on a lie. True transformation begins when we replace those lies with God’s truth about our identity.
Podcast Recommendations
🎧 False Beliefs About God — Break free from lies that fuel performance-based love.
🎧 Understanding Low Self-Worth — Learn how God’s truth restores your value.
Ready to Stop Striving?
If you’re tired of chasing approval and want lasting peace, Rock House Center can help. Our heart-focused counseling uncovers the root of self-worth struggles and replaces them with spiritual truth.
👉 Book your free online Heart Healing Discovery Session today.
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