Have you ever been deeply offended by something someone said or did—only to later realize they never meant it that way? That moment reveals a powerful truth: offense often grows from assumption. When we assume someone’s intent, we risk believing a lie that fuels emotional pain and damages relationships.
At Rock House Center, we’ve seen how assumed intent becomes a breeding ground for torment. The lie says, “They meant to hurt me,” “They don’t care,” or “I’m not valued.” These beliefs take root in the heart and shape how we respond—not just to one person, but to life itself.
In the podcast “The Offense of Assumed Intent” John shares a story about falling asleep while Beth was asking a question. Her interpretation of his action—assuming he didn’t care—led to offense. Another example involves a wife moving her husband’s boots to mop the floor, which he interpreted as disrespect. These everyday moments reveal how quickly lies can distort reality.
God’s Truth offers a better way. Scripture says, “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7). Believing the best about others is not naïve—it’s freeing. It protects your heart from lies and keeps your peace intact.
Healing begins when we reject the lie of assumed intent and embrace the Truth: that our worth is not defined by others’ actions, and our peace is not dependent on their behavior. We can forgive, release, and live free from offense.
🎧 Listen to “The Offense of Assumed Intent” and begin your journey to emotional peace and relational clarity.
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