Freedom from the Lie That Others Control Your Life

Have you ever felt like someone else holds the reins of your life? That your peace, happiness, or sense of worth depends on their approval, behavior, or decisions? That feeling is more than frustration—it’s rooted in a lie. The lie says, “I’m powerless,” “I have no choice,” or “I must keep the peace at all costs.” These beliefs create emotional torment and resentment, and they rob you of the freedom God intends for you.

At Rock House Center, we’ve seen how this lie leads to dependency, bitterness, and a loss of identity. People live in fear of disappointing others, constantly adjusting themselves to avoid conflict or rejection. But this isn’t God’s design.

In the podcast “Freedom from Being Controlled,” Beth and John share stories of individuals who believed they had no voice or choice in relationships. One woman described the emptiness she felt after opening Christmas presents—realizing she had shaped her life around others’ expectations and still felt unseen. Another story revealed how dependency on a romantic relationship led to emotional collapse when it ended.

The Truth is this: you are not at the mercy of others. You are fully known and fully loved by God, and your peace comes from Him—not from managing others’ reactions. Scripture says, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free” (Galatians 5:1). That freedom includes emotional independence and spiritual authority.

Healing begins when you reject the lie that others control your life and embrace the Truth that God is your source of peace, value, and direction. You can forgive, release, and walk in freedom.

🎧 Listen to “Freedom from Being Controlled” and begin your journey to emotional freedom and peace.

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