At Rock House Center, we’ve seen time and again that lasting transformation doesn’t come from trying harder—it comes from surrendering deeper. In Be Transformed – New Life Awaits, John Robin Murphy shares how the root of change is not in behavior modification but in heart alignment with God. When we try to discipline ourselves into freedom, we often end up exhausted and discouraged. But when we offer God our desire—our longing to be made whole—He meets us with grace and power.
Stop Striving, Start Surrendering
This truth is beautifully unpacked in the Rock House Center podcast episode, “God Wants Your Desire, Not Your Discipline.” In it, John and Beth Murphy explain how striving to please God through performance can actually block the very intimacy we long for. God is not looking for perfect behavior; He’s looking for a surrendered heart. When we bring Him our brokenness, our confusion, and even our resistance, He begins the work of transformation from the inside out.
If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of trying harder and getting nowhere, this is your invitation to stop striving and start surrendering. God doesn’t need your perfection—He wants your permission. He wants to be invited into the places you’ve tried to fix on your own. And when you do, you’ll find that His love is not only enough—it’s the very thing that changes everything.
Prayer of Commitment:
Let this be your moment of surrender. Pray this aloud:
“Father, I surrender to You. I give You permission to change my heart. I choose to trust You and Your ways. I release my efforts to control and fix myself. I receive Your love and truth. I commit to follow You and allow You to lead me into freedom. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
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